Caffeine Addiction And Multiple Personalities
Wednesday, October 29th, 2008Having an addiction can feel a lot like insanity at times. In fact it often seems like there are two distinct people operating inside your head.
On one hand there’s the you who knows the caffeine is having a bad effect on your health. You’re sick of being a nervous wreck, tired of the splitting headaches, and ready to get rid of that burning feeling in your gut from too many cups of acidic coffee.
You may even become so frustrated with your inability to quit that you end up in tears. Why the hell can’t you just stop drinking the @#$%^! coffee?
Then there’s the other side of you: This persona often asks “What’s the big deal?”
When in this mode you wonder why you wanted to quit in the first place. You talk yourself into just having one cup and not making a big deal of it.
Naturally one cup turns into 8 and you’re back to being an emotional wreck about the whole deal. It’s incredible when you stop to think about it.
How on earth can something have this kind of hold on you? I mean, we’re not talking about cocaine or heroine here… this is ust caffein for goodness sake!
The truth is, an addiction is serious business no matter what chemical you’re dealing with. In fact we can become addicted to the natural chemicals our bodies release during certain emotional responses!
It’s not easy to stay focused knowing that after you’ve gone without your fix for a while, that other you will emerge and try to talk you into pouring yourself another cup or having an energy drink.
One little trick that can help you here is to write yourself a note, or several notes. When you’re sick to death of your addiction write it down and be as dramatic as you want. Then put this note in your wallet or stick it on your fridge or workdesk, and look at it when you start to think from the wrong center.
This works really well for most people.
Another course of action is to get support from others. Involve your friends and family and put together a support group.
If you can get people who care about you to hold you accountable for your desire to quit, you’ll be less likely to break from your game plan. Give your support group permission to call you out on a backslide and embarrass you if needed.
Beign aware of the “other you” is a great start. It means you’re being real about your desire to change.
For a complete guide on how to quit caffeine check out my downloadable special report. I used this system myself to ditch the habit and it can help you as well.